My Heart is Hurting.

Smile though your heart is aching
Smile even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by
If you Smile through your pain and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll see the sun come shining through
For you

Light up your face with gladness
Hide every trace of sadness
Although a tear may be ever so near
That's the time (thats the time) you must keep on trying
Smile- What's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile.

That's the time (thats the time) you must keep on trying,
Smile- What's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile.

Smile though your heart is aching
Smile Even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky- You'll get by

That's the time (thats the time) you must keep on trying
Smile- What's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile.

 

Today I'm sad.  I have to make this quick because I have class, but the guy I like is hurting.  He had a girlfriend for many years in middle school and high school and about 7 years today she died in a car accident.  I have been so sad for him all day wanting, wishing I could someway help.  But there is nothing I can do.  He posted this Facebook status:

 

"I miss my friend, the one my heart was so confided in. The one I felt the safest with. The one who knew just what to say, to make me laugh again, and let the light back in. I miss my friend... LRL - Still miss you each and every day Linds"

I really want to be this person to him but I feel as though he is still not ready for it.  I know he is hurting, which makes my heart hurt, but I also know he needs to get past this somehow and I think the only way is to find someone again.

I know this is cheesy, but it's what I'm feeling for the day, as I have also been on the verge of tears.  I knew the girl who died, too, but I was not friends with her because she was much older than I was.

Do any of you know anything I can do or say? I told him if he wants to talk he can call me, etc., but that's it.  I am at a loss for words.

With love,
Ali